I love my family beyond words and I will do ANYTHING to save us! I hate having sex with my husband because I do not get turned on like I am “supposed” to. That isn't the case for men. I don’t know what to do my husband and I have been together 11 years married 6 and 8 weeks ago he walked out saying he doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t want to save our marriage. He is willing to cuddle but intercourse is out of the question. Sex Life Goes Off The Cliff; 1.2 2. We were having a rather innocuous conversation and I said that I was still “in love” with her. Dear Neil: I would like to know whether my husband is having a midlife crisis. He says the marriage in not fixable and does not want to fix it anyway. My husband has told me that he loves me but is not “in love” with me and he no longer wants to have intercourse with me. Physical Intimacy. I feel angry, rejected, and hurt. Dear Lost: It sounds like your husband is saying he no longer loves you. He may love his spouse and want to be with her forever, but there is a biological pull, usually unconscious, that says, … He Listens But Doesn’t Engage; 1.5 5. He Flirts With Other Women; 1.6 6. Partners who are in love have sex more often to make love. I saved myself for marriage–which I don’t regret-but his rejection of me truly hurts. He read about 3/4 of the book and made notes. my husband of almost 20 years says he isn't in love with me anymore and no longer wants to remained married. Never men. They enjoy pleasing their partners in the bedroom, not purely to … He wants a divorce and will not change his mind this time! My husband told me the other week that he doesn’t love me anymore and wants to leave. Fantasies about women get me aroused but not men. Lost in Sacramento. When it comes to marriage, if a guy is done and not in love anymore, he isn’t going to go in for love that isn’t real. 1.1 1. I have been married for 10 years with 2 kids. Our Feelings. He’s No Longer Romantic; 1.3 3. Can you help? A guy who doesn’t love his wife would rather masturbate than carry on a fake sexual relationship. He keeps saying he loves me but is not in love with me anymore, and that I am not the person he married. If you still enjoy sex together, that is one of the best answers to, does my husband love me. We had many conversations and he bought your book, First The Empowered Wife. We have 4 sons together. WTF is what went through my head when my wife of 15 years said she is not “in love” with me. Among the warning #signs, your partner needs a divorce is when he isn’t interested … He Doesn’t Reach Out To Communicate; 1.4 4. 3. 1 Signs My Husband Isn't Attracted To Me Anymore. 15 Unfortunate Signs Your Husband Doesn’t Love You Anymore, Signs Your Husband Wants A Divorce and Signs My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore. In my teens, I began identifying as a bisexual, but my love for (and of) women has only increased with age. I am his best friend and the mother of his kids, but he isn’t in love with me. He gone to stay at his brothers but only took a few clothes and doesn’t want any thing else. He Makes It Difficult To Spend Time Together; 1.7 7.